• Home
  • Good and Bad Thoughts
  • Good Guests
  • Bad Drawings
  • Good Food
  • About
  • Contact me
Good Mom vs Bad Mom

Election TuesDay

11/6/2012

0 Comments

 
Picture
It's election day and, believe it or not, it did not occur to me to write about the elections until a former classmate (and father of three) suggested it to me. But then I thought, "I don't know enough about politics! I can't espouse the candidates former voting records! I don't know the electoral counts of every state! What will I say?" As it turns out, I'll say what I know. 

I know that my parents were immigrants from South America. My father came to get his undergraduate degree, graduated, went back to South America long enough to marry my mother, and came back to get his Master's and PhD. My mother, who at the time had limited knowledge of English (though her French was good!) and had little family in the US, learned to drive, improved her English and worked hard to raise five children as they moved from Texas, Michigan, New York and Maine before settling in Ohio when I was five.  

Even though they were not raised here, my parents knew more about American governance then than most Americans know of South American politics now, in the global age of the internet. They also knew what injustice looked like and when they spotted it, they tried to change it. I remember growing up in small town Ohio and hearing them talk about  the Vietnamese refugees and finding ways to help them. They talked about President Carter and what he was doing in the early 80s. I remember my father building houses for Habitat--long before it was cool--and joining their board. And I remember them campaigning every electoral season. My parents would put up signs on our lawn, distribute them to others, they'd attend local rallies, and work behind the scenes for months on behalf of Ohio governors and senators in-the-making. My twin sister and I would make TV dinners and eat alone on the nights that they were gone. If they were campaigning on a weekend night, we would stay up late choreographing elaborate dance routines to show them upon arrival.  

My parents would write letters to the local newspapers--my mother usually editing my father's writing--that would often get printed. My parents were never involved to get attention nor were they looking for the glamour that party supporters look for now. No, they wanted to make a change. They wanted justice. They wanted the person who was going to make things right to be put in charge. I don't remember them telling me to fight for my beliefs, to right wrongs, to stand up for others; I remember seeing them do it. Not just every four years, but every year, every day.  

My mother became an American citizen when I was in sixth grade. She had retained her Bolivian citizenship for years, but she decided it was time to give it up because she wanted to be able to cast her own vote. I was a newly-minted 18-year-old when I voted for the presidential election for the first time. Since I was away in college, I called my parents to tell them I had voted, excited I had finally joined the electoral process.

Though I am not as passionate about campaigning, I am passionate about being informed and fighting for what I think is right. If I don't, my children may not enjoy the rights and freedoms I think they deserve. I hope that I can be the example to them that my parents were to me. 

My mother--still an ardent political activist--already voted this morning. My son got to see me vote today for the first time. I can't wait until he can debate politics and I especially can't wait until he calls me to tell he's voted for the first time.


Did you vote? What will you teach your children about political campaigning and the electoral process?
0 Comments



Leave a Reply.

    Author

    Patricia is a part-time working mom with a 9-year-old son (Monkey) and 7-year-old daughter (Munchkin). She thinks passing judgment on other parents comes easy, so why not (politely) pass judgement on GMvBM?

    Subscribe to our mailing list

    * indicates required

    RSS Feed

    Archives

    June 2016
    February 2016
    August 2015
    March 2015
    February 2015
    January 2015
    December 2014
    November 2014
    October 2014
    September 2014
    August 2014
    July 2014
    June 2014
    May 2014
    April 2014
    March 2014
    February 2014
    January 2014
    December 2013
    November 2013
    October 2013
    September 2013
    August 2013
    July 2013
    June 2013
    May 2013
    April 2013
    March 2013
    February 2013
    January 2013
    December 2012
    November 2012
    October 2012
    September 2012
    August 2012
    July 2012
    June 2012
    May 2012

    Categories

    All
    Abby Wambach
    Academy Awards
    Age-appropriateness
    Aging
    Aintnomomjeans.com
    American Idols
    Apps For Car Trips
    Ashlee Simpson
    AskMoxie.com
    Babble.com
    Baby Names
    Baby Weight
    Boston Explosions
    Boston Marathon 2013
    Boys Tougher Than Girls?
    Brave
    Brooke Raboutou
    Cameron Russell
    Carolyn Hax
    Celebrity Baby Names
    Celebrity Parents
    #ChasingAbby
    #ChasingMia
    Cheerios
    Christmas Sweater
    City Life
    Coco Foods
    Controlling Kids Food
    Copycat Children
    Creating Holiday Cards
    Daddydoinwork
    Dear Mom On The Iphone
    Dear Mom On Your Iphone
    Derek Thompson
    Eating Healthy
    End Of School
    Expectant Moms
    Extended Family
    Fitness For Moms
    Flying With Kids
    Flylady
    Food
    Foster Care
    Foster Mother
    Foster Parenting
    Four Little Fergusons
    Full-time Nanny
    Gabby Douglas
    Gender
    Gender Stereotypes
    Gerber
    Girls And Appearance
    Girl's Hair
    Glennon Melton
    Gloria Estefan
    Gogurt
    Goldfish Cracker
    Goodie Bags
    Grammys
    Gwyneth Paltrow
    Hip Homeschool Moms
    Holiday Cards
    Huffington Post
    Ice Cream
    Ikea
    Incredible India
    Jessica Alba
    Jessica Simpson
    Jet Lag
    Jimmy Smits
    John Tierney
    Judd Apatow
    Junk Food
    Lego
    Lessons Learned
    Lisa Bloom
    Love
    Marriage
    Mia Hamm
    Michael Jackson
    Mimicking Parents
    Mister Softee
    Momastery
    Moving As A Family
    Moving To The Suburbs
    Mud Run
    My Baby Barfs On Burberry And Chomps On Coach.
    Never Quitting
    New Mom Advice
    New Mother
    New Parents
    Older Women (ha!)
    Olympics
    Pack'n'play
    Pamela Druckerman
    Parenting Lessons
    Pete Wentz
    Plane Bassinets
    Play-dates
    Playground Etiquette
    Playground Politics
    Potty Training
    Pre-school
    Princesa
    Princess
    Procrastination
    Proud Sponsor Of Moms
    Raising Twins
    Red Bull Arena
    Red Carpet
    Rita Jeptoo
    Road Trip With Family
    Running
    SAHM
    Sara Bareilles
    Say What You Wanna Say
    ScaryMommy.com
    Slate.com
    Sleep Training
    Spider-Man
    Sports
    Sports & Parenting
    Strangers
    Suburban Family Living
    Summer Activities
    Summers With Kids
    Swearing In Front Of Kids
    Talkative Toddlers
    Teaching Preschoolers
    Television For Kids
    Terrible Twos
    The Atlantic
    The Oscars
    They Call Me Mama
    Third World Country Travel With Kids
    Time.com
    Toddler Eating
    Tomboy
    Tomboys
    Tonya Ferguson
    Toobigforstrollers.com
    Traveling With Children
    Travel With Kids To India
    Triathlons
    TV
    Twins
    Two-year Old
    US Women's Soccer
    Walking
    Wall Street Journal
    Webmd
    Weddings
    Why Be A Princess When You Can Be A President
    Women Turning 40
    Working Mother
    Work Life Balance
    #WorldCup2014
    World Cup Soccer
    Www.Ted.com
    Yolanda Caballero
    Zipcar

    RSS Feed

Powered by Create your own unique website with customizable templates.