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Mama on the Run

3/24/2015

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PictureThe newly discovered trail
This winter has been extra snowy, chilly and unkind to runners like me who do not like treadmills. As I stared out the window last month and lamented my increasingly soft form, I decided enough was enough. Sporadic trips to swim laps at the indoor pool and short runs sprinkled between snow showers was not enough to keep this 40-year-old body in shape. It was time for a goal. After some research, I registered for a local half marathon taking place in May. Excitedly I printed out my Hal Higdon training schedule only to realize I was already a week behind. 

As someone very familiar with the pain of over-training, I eased into the first two weeks of running by "only" running three times a week. It's not much by training standards, but way more than I'd been doing recently. It's been two years since I did (my slowest) half-marathon (ever), and I do not plan on going through the agony of again running a race for which I was under-prepared. (Not to self: never register for a half-marathon that takes place in March, unless I can train somewhere warm.)

When it came time for my first long run, I wanted to know, "Can I do it?" The answer that day was a definite "maybe." Aided by my Fitbit tracking device, I was shocked to realize my first 5-mile run in years was quite slow. I thought for sure I was running 30-60 seconds faster per mile than the tracker said, but alas that was not the case. As I stared at the phone displaying my dismal pace, I wondered, "Am I too old to pull this half-marathon out of a hat? Am I too hopelessly out of shape? Too something? 

But as the days have plodded on, I have squeezed in runs before or after work and picked up the pace. When I had a hectic weekend ahead of me, I decided to do my 7-mile long run after work on a Thursday instead of Saturday and what a revelation it was. I started my run at a trail I had heard about, but not yet seen. As I followed the map, running cautiously toward my destination, I found myself, on a gorgeous trail, high above the river to my left and a forest to my right. I ran slowly at first, trying not to focus on my Fitbit pace, but instead checking out my surroundings. Pulling my hood tight under my chin, I kept going and going until I reached the point where the course merged with a trail I recognized; a trail I'd been hoping to run to, but had not yet reached. Joyfully I pushed on along the river, passing a beautiful old mill, jogging up and down the winding path. At the half-way mark, I nearly whooped. I'd made it! Now I just had to make it home in one piece

As is my custom in training runs and even marathons, I always pick up the pace when heading towards the finish line. By now, the wind had died down, my tense body loosened and I quickened my gait. Step, step, step, step. I just kept moving, taking in the trees, the neighborhoods, the lakes in for a second time. Appreciating the scenery from this other perspective. 

As I clicked off the miles and mentally checked how my legs, my ankles, my knees were feeling, I started to think, "I'm going to do it and I'm going to be fine." And I was. I continued to pick up the pace until I finally stopped in front of my house with a faster pace than that first 5-miler. Three weeks ago, I'd barely been doing three-mile runs and I now I'd done seven for the first time in years and it felt good. What a difference a goal makes! Without that half-marathon carrot in front of me, I'd likely have been puttering around at home instead of discovering trails and seeing a new side of my adopted hometown. That Thursday, as I faced the wind and sun I answered the questions I'd asked myself weeks ago: I may be a little achy and a little slow, but I guess I'm not too old to run this race. Not this year anyway. 

What goals have you set for yourself this year? Have they motivated you or not?
3 Comments
Mom MacLean
3/24/2015 04:33:06 am

Patrice, enjoyed your article and your determination to run. Love,

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Patricia
3/24/2015 11:01:59 pm

Thank you! I have to stay in shape or I can't keep up with the kids, especially your namesake who never stops moving! :)

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Pamela
3/25/2015 02:24:52 am

You make running sound very appealing! I am glad you are enjoying getting some fresh air, the opportunity to stretch your legs and to clear your mind.

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    Patricia is a part-time working mom with a 9-year-old son (Monkey) and 7-year-old daughter (Munchkin). She thinks passing judgment on other parents comes easy, so why not (politely) pass judgement on GMvBM?

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